There is a man out there who is in love with a lady with some problems wich the community say bad things about.
Probably she has bad history,she is a single mom,she is not virgin,she is not facially good,she is lower class,she is dark in skin,too fat,too thin or any other related problems,my guy love is not discussed on social media love is in the heart if you think that’s the person who can bring you happiness,be your partner & you are well connected go for it it’s all about you,you will be doing it for you and for your life so people’s opinion’s don’t matter especially on things that doesn’t destroy you any how.

There are good people out there who got wr they are because of love not because they are too bad and even the bad ones can be given a second chance,im here an ex womaniser,an ex drunkard,ex coward the list is endless but I’m here as an Apostle of Jesus Christ.
Many in the beginning ddnt see me fit for this because of my past but Jesus never cared about their opinions all I can tell you is this,”There are plenty who left the people they love because of friends,relatives and community,”if you are to leave or love someone let it all be about you most of the people just make opinions on things that don’t belong them.
If they don’t want someone of that condition it’s them not you so why are they bothered about your choice when theirs is fine.
I recall some years ago I was in love with a lady who was into me and I was into her she was so good and she uplifted me in many areas but because of age I was so discouraged by some advices,things I met on Facebook and things I heard from friends and family,I left her for no reason,she cried,begged,asked for forgiveness for something she never did,she came to see me to discuss this,she did all to resolve the matter but haa I was scared to take her back cause I ddnt see her fit for me because I never had a child.
Yeah I was deeply in love with her but I threw her away because of community standards but here comes the problem,I failed to forget her for 2 years but I made sua I don’t communicate with her but after realizing that I’m living in pain because of what other people think I decided to look for her.
I found her on Facebook I sent her a massage she was married by another guy with a big stomach and they now had a child and she was staying in Canada.
She told me straight that she was wr she was not because of her choice,all she wanted was me but it failed,I told her my reasons & explained how young I was and how the pressure forced me to leave her.
She was now opting to run away from the guy and come to me wich I refused because I knew how dangerous it was but honestly we kept talking almost daily and I could feel the pains of being helped by people to decide about what makes me happy.

I recall on my toughest times when she helped me to sot out a lot of things from abroad till the guy found out the chats or what,I’m not sua I just found my self 🚫 blocked and I just concluded kuti tabatwa.
It ate me up for another year searching for her all ways everywhere I could but I failed and it ended that way because all my handles seemed to be blocked or she de activated her accounts under command.
Sometimes love comes on people whom the community can not accept but you will be feeling it in your heart that your joy and peace on her but hey hey community.
Dont follow that follow your self Great Man is married,a lot of people with conditions that people don’t expect anyone to easily fall in love are in relationships and marriages love is beyond social media statements it’s a mystery my guy.
Mude mude munhu wako and don’t give an ear to whatever they may say no man should decide for the other man if the choice doesn’t put your life in danger.
⚠️ I’m done have a blessed day
Tisu vaya team perishing we choose to perish and be happy 😊
-Perish and be the master of your thoughts and opinions atifungirwe nemunhu